The art of escorting or how to become an elite escort in the US
So you’re dreaming to make a professional escort? Before you find yourself accompanying the most refined men, there are a few things you will want to know. Becoming an elite companion is not all about being pretty or tall. It is more about embracing the inner beauty, drive and the inborn ability to back up those looks. And like any other job, the competition in the deluxe escorting is fierce. Nevertheless, today there are a lot of ways than ever to be noticed and find your own path in the world of escort service. In the guide below, you can find the core rules that are highly unlikely to go out of style.
There is no doubt that this industry is totally based on appearance. And by saying it we mean you need to have a fresh look – you need to be a striking beauty with impeccable skin and mainstream hair style. Your hair should be also on point – multicolored trends will not do. Pink and blue hair tied into a cute waterfall braid might look fantastic on you but it will not be acceptable in high-end society. Try something which is taking over the fashion world now and in terms of hair styles becoming a part of every self-confessed classical beauty addict. In a nutshell, you need to be pleasant to the eye. If model agencies are not hunting for you to embrace the VOGUE’s covers and no one ever told you are a masterpiece, then you might not find yourself in the deluxe escort service. Cosmetic surgery undoubtedly can improve the aesthetic appearance of yours but too much work can truly worsen your look. To avoid this, even minor plastic surgeries need to be never used. Natural look is a must. And remember, to make an elite companion, you should become a true chameleon able to transform with each new role.
Coming back to the topic of looks, one must be in the perfect shape. It goes without saying that tastes differ and modeling industry does not have the certain type of body that always wins. Nevertheless, you need to be in a prime shape. And no matter what shape of body you have – a top hourglass body type, pear or straight one, to become a successful companion you should be phenomenally fit. Keep in mind that you are high-end and like the best actresses, top models and the sportsmen of all the time should watch your nutrition and take sports very seriously. Strenuous and regular workouts are above all. If you tend not to eat a balanced diet, skip meals on a regular basis, drink inadequate fluids and give no thing about eating disorders, then you might not fit for this job. And there also should not be any weight fluctuation. And without any doubt, your lifestyle needs to exclude regular “going out sort of thing”, sedentary behavior and total indifference to your body on the whole. You are stunning and you should not forget to groom yourself right. And like we said before, no cosmetic surgery is allowed unless it is to improve tiny flaws or to equal things out aesthetically. Pouted-lips, puffy face, cheek implants are out of the question.
Absolutely smoke and drug-free
If they spot you are a smoker, their interest in you will immediately fade away. Deluxe companions should smell nice. And it is safe to say that there is no amount of perfume that will cover up the stench of disgusting cigarette smoke. An even the most alluring woman with yellow teeth is a dead turn off for any man. It really is. Let alone drug-addicted women having various skin afflictions, hair loss, and teeth decay, with excessive body odor to match. An elite companion should be the true fountain of youth looking flawless and impeccable, not a woman with poor skin tone, thinning hair and sagging skin. Stained fingers, lines around lips and damaged teeth give you the stamp of infamy. To travel in the wealthiest circles you should be zerosmoke and drug-free. As it was has been said above, healthy way is your trump card. It really is.
We are all social beings and our brains grow in a social environment that is why in the process of becoming a person one’s childhood and parenting do play a crucial role. When it comes to background, we cannot but mention proper housing, facilities for education, health care and free space for recreation. This might sound rather cliché but still, these are the components that influence one’s wellbeing. Children from families where they had been exposed to addictive substances or alcohol are highly unlikely to develop normal behavior patterns. Summing up, one must have been raised in nice physical surroundings characterized by good health outcomes, facilities and open space. And what is more, one should have been raised in a family full of love and respect. Freedom to be able to make choices goes without saying. One should have been able to grow as a person without being pushed to the extremes or pressed, without being judged, yelled at or criticized. The essential traits of character a professional companion should have are warm-heartiness, curiosity, spontaneity and kindness. These are the key to success. However, the ability not to take things for granted and enjoy every single minute of life is also extremely important in this field. It is necessary to be able to be happy about simple things in life. The ideal companionship conjures up the images of a lady that is spirit still yet passionate. Fragile yet powerful. She is charming, tolerant and opinionated. And she can be chatty whenever her man will want her to be. And even in the darkest times she will keep him in good spirits and do her best to evoke a smile on his face. She is that cheerful and talkative so she always attracts people’s attention. Her lovable personality never goes underestimated in high society. There are some things that money cannot buy… like manners, morals and integrity. And that is true. This unique set is undoubtedly required. An elite lady’s mood should never dictate her manners. No matter what, she always remains calm and serene. As you see, deportment plays a significant role. It really does. And that is the reason why ladies who do not carry the inner talent when it comes to sitting, walking and acting like a queen; do not fit to perform this job. Another important thing needs to be said is about the art of empathizing. Being able to step outside emotions and view things from the perspective of the other person scores you very high on the escort arena. Inborn intelligence as well as one gained throughout life, are said to be essential. And if clothes bought in posh boutiques, a sweet talk, tantric massage and sex is how you imagine the world of escort service, then you have completely misunderstood the art of it.
To become an exceptional companion one should get traditional schooling done. This sort of education helps become a high-flier and succeed in life. The first thing that strikes about the traditional schooling is knowledge gain which is crucially important because it gives a knowledge of the world we live in, develops a prospective of looking at life and helps building opinions and points of view on various things and situations. One needs this sort of education to become a knowledgeable person, broaden the mind and gain conversational skills which will help handle a conversation at any level. Throughout ballet, trips, music and art one can turn so called “university” way of thinking into something much more deep and meaningful. Only with the help of classic literature you can implant the love to reading and creative writing, for instance. Suffice it to say, no textbooks and teachers will ever mold you in the way you can mold yourself. Only Shakespeare’s sonnets will teach you how to value mortal things in life, and how to give up the burden that drags you down. No school ever will. Only going places you will learn how to tackle problems and sort things out. And neither movies nor pictures will put you at the edge of excitement. But seeing places with your own eyes – that is what will make you passionate about life. Ability to be truly passionate about something and enjoy the finest things in life is what an ideal companion should possess.
Responsibility and commitment
One that always breaks promises will never be suited for this job. An elite companionship is expected to do exactly what she says and always keep her word. Making a man wait is considered to be highly unprofessional. If being considered deluxe is what you really long for, do not forget to be trustworthy and accurate. Professionalism, it is. A companion is a little nothing unless she is genuine and sincere. She should be the true definition of honesty. And what concerns dates, it is strongly prohibited to agree on an appointment and then not show up. If you are never available and keep on flaking, an agency will never be able to advertise you in a proper way. Let alone promotion.
Set of skills.
Even if you have those good looks and some sort of knowledge in particular fields, you are nothing but a pretty tinsel until you master something truly amazing. Like sports or art, for instance. Take Victorian times, when a woman had to acquire set of skills to become the “proper” woman. It was done not to show her worthiness but in the name of investment in herself which was considered to be of high value those days gone. To cut story short, even now a woman who has various skills is more valuable and helpful than the one who lacks it all.
Horse riding, traveling to the remotest corners of the world, snorkeling, Spanish classes, culinary art, jogging, creative writing, poetry, playing the fiddle or guitar, painting, dancing, photography, translating, volunteering, garden décor, sewing, bakery, swimming with sharks – take up any field. To cater for her man’s needs and wishes, a deluxe companion brings it all to the table. Moreover, talking about his job and future aspirations, giving him friendly pieces of advice and encouraging him to move forward is what really gives her a thrill.
There is nothing impossible for her, and by saying it we mean that she can accompany his man at any social event or a family gathering, and would handle any situation that could come up. She might not be the know-it-all type of woman, and she doesn’t have to be! Because teaching his amante little something would take any man to cloud nine. This is the most wide-spread fantasy ever. Back to the topic, even though she can learn something when being taught, she must be knowledgeable and very quick on the uptake. Having some basic knowledge and a few incredible talents will balance things out perfectly. And some advice, when on a date, no matter it is just a talk over a coffee or planned by your agency, always take it seriously, do not be cold-hearted, and, of course, be exceptional. Make them remember you till the end of days.
In terms of style
In the world we live in brands matter, they really do. And sex appeal does attract attention, but it is a well-known fact that showing a little bit more is considered to be rotten and filthy in wealthy circles. The style of an elite companionship conjures up elegance, class and femininity. She is always dressed in a classic way, no hint of bare body. She has her own style. And this style suits her perfectly. Her style is a way to say who she is without having to speak. This is reflection of her attitude and personality. As for colors, she gives her preference to the neutral ones. She knows that she can never go wrong wearing fitted pencils skirts and slim-fitted jackets. A pair of classic shoes will add the finishing touches. As well as an elegant scarf does. Protecting her own style she never wears trashy dresses or posh jewelry – she would rather wear something tasteful which would match the color of her eyes. And she never follows the latest fashion that is weird at times – not so her. She says that classics never go out of style. Massive high heels or bizarre footwear are inappropriate. But light perfume and nude make up are always on point. She is a woman with a class. And you know what they call “classy”? When a woman has everything to flaunt but chooses not to show it.
Holding high standards she tends to be very selective with who she invests her time. And she will never lower her standards for anyone or anything. Her self-respect is everything. Deep down inside she strongly feels that she is a goddess. And she really is.
How to move up the career ladder in the world of escorts
As it has been mentioned before, the whole parenting thing and the social environment make an impact on people but even if you had a bit of misfortune in past there is a chance for you to make an excellent companion! There are a great number of world-class etiquette schools which will help you master the rules of the etiquette from A to Z. Do not be in a hurry when looking through them – take your time, read some reviews on the Internet, go through the history of the establishment and choose the best one. And do not forget about phonetics classes and speech prosody that will take your sounds and intonation at another level. It is always nice to listen to people with great pronunciation. Delightful. Taking up a few public speaking classes won’t kill, too. Invest in yourself and in time you will become a completely different person. As for looks, going to a professional stylist sounds like a good plan. It is always nice to have a second opinion about hair styles, the latest fashion trends and make up. Ask for some friendly pieces of advice on what to wear to enhance the color of your eyes and how to look like a million dollars. You may even take some make up courses in order to achieve special looks and build your own elegant expertise. Learning how to master the perfect glow and an extremely popular nude look will undoubtedly up your beauty game. But remember, red carpet make up, pin-up and night-time diva look and drag make up are out of the question. Suffice it to say, natural look is the key to success. An elite companion should look flawless even without makeup that is why you should spend a lot of time building the best routine for your shiny healthy skin.
Coming back to the means of entertainment, find something that fits your personality and whets appetite to life. Something that you can talk about for hours. You can choose from learning a new language, kayaking, sailing, cooking to volunteering at school or playing tennis. What about playing the fiddle or violin? How about sommelier classes? Painting ones? Dedicate some time to learning about the greatest musicians on earth – find out who is your favorite one and look through his history and the best pieces. If it is hard for you to differentiate between Wagner, Tchaikovsky, Brahms, and Mozart – take some time exploring their styles. Who inspires you the most? Makes you feel like walking on air? Ignites your passion to life? Whose pieces do touch the strings of your soul? Discover the art of opera. Do you know what the word “opera” means in Italian? What about “libretto”? How many operas did Beethoven write? And have you ever seen such famous opera hits as Eugene Onegin, Fidelio, Carmen, Marriage of Figaro? And how did you like them? What is your favorite one? Who wrote that? These are the questions you should know answers to. Musicals. For god’s sake, there should be a couple of musicals you should have already seen. Singing in the rain, West Side Story, The Sounds of Music, Chicago, The Wicked, The Spring Awakening, The Phantom of the Opera, An American in Paris, the Wizard of Oz are the classics. How much do you know about musicals on the scale from 1 to 10? What is your favorite and why did it touch you to the very core? You should have some basic knowledge when it comes to musicals because musicals is a good way to kill the time and have a blast. So, you will probably be often asked to accompany refined men to musicals or to the opera. You should also never forget about ballet. Knowing the most popular Prima Donnas, best performances are essential in the escort world. The point is, you should always gain such exquisite knowledge because there is no chance a man with a sophisticated taste will talk about soup operas and TV shows. They say, knowledge is power, especially when you are the part of high society. When taken to a higher level, you are likely to think about whether to work as an independent escort or work with a team of professionals in a decent world-class agency. There is no doubt that this decision is hard to make but nevertheless you should make up your mind and give it a try. Taking every detail into consideration and playing properly, you will definitely come out with flying colors.
If you are willing to provide services of an independent companion, you will have the power to set your hours and fees. Another advantage of working solo is that you can choose and screen clients on your own. You will not see somebody with who you do not see eye to eye or are highly unlikely to click and strike up a conversation. In this very case you are in control and able to make decisions by yourself. Though, there is another side of the coin. Working alone means spending a lot of money on regular advertising and going through the process of screening on your own, which is definitely hard and takes way much time. And the last thing needs to be noticed that there might be times when you will feel insecure.
The first thing is that you should find the right agency that will be eager to help you move up the career ladder. Bear in mind that reputable agencies never ask money upfront. When you find a good agency, take some time to think whether you click with them or not. It is important to feel comfortable around the people you are going to work for. If it is a match, then you will be instantly advertised and promoted. Moreover, some agencies can negotiate the whole fee thing with you and let you decide who you would like to go on dates with. Remember that an agency forcing you to have appointments with men you do not want to date is one that simply wants to take an advantage of you. It goes without saying that a world-class escort agency will be honest with you and let you participate in the work at some level. This business is about flexibility. If you would like to be promoted, you should be flexible and available for your clients. Promptness, accuracy and flexibility are essentials.
If you have decided to give your preference to an agency and this way facilitate your life at some point, then you will start going through numerous sites full of scam and ads. And in this case you are likely to spot some agencies that will flake, ask for money beforehand and force you to make appointments with clients you would rather never meet in your life. But there are some decent agencies that have been created to unite people drive by one goal. If you have already found good ones, you will have to work with them in order to find out whether it suits you or not. Do they treat you well? What happens when it is time to be paid? Do they let you screen clients? Do they hide something from you? After all, you will see for yourself that in this line of business honesty is the best policy.
We can talk about those sorts of things for hours but we would rather let you experience it and then give an honest review. You will be safe and sound as long as you stay away from bad blood agencies pressuring you to take or sell addictive substances or forcing you to have appointments with people you do not want to meet. And keep in mind that there is no “trial period” – decline offers of this sort immediately. Be always on alert and aware of the former workers who established these so called agencies and are trying to make money by hook or by crook. No promises will be kept and there is a big chance of you to end up being fooled. So you would better be careful. As for screening, you can try to figure out the ways they screen clients. For example, world-class agencies do it through some special software programs. But the questions are, what are their extremes? In what circumstances they can refuse a client point-blank? What about payments? Do they help you out when problems come up? Are they completely honest about the work they do? If you are new to the city and seem to have lost your way home, will they give you a hand? You should be wise. Your intelligence and wit will definitely help you find the right agency right away. And when it is finished, you will be enjoying yourself working for a decent agency and building up your career. We are more than sure that you can contribute to the business and equal things out.